There’s something magical about hearing your child sing a show tune at full volume in the back seat. As both a music teacher and a parent, I’ve found that bonding through musical theater has become one of the most joyful—and surprising—ways to connect with my child.
If you’ve ever caught your kid humming “Defying Gravity” or belting out “You Will Be Found,” you already know: musicals aren’t just entertainment. They’re conversations, lessons, and emotional bridges.
Here’s how I’ve deepened our relationship through show tunes—and how you can too.
Start With a Shared Musical
Pick one. Just one. That was our rule.
When my daughter was six, it was Annie. Not because I chose it—but because she heard “Tomorrow” in a piano lesson and got hooked. We watched the movie, sang along with a karaoke track, and even re-created a scene with our dog (who was not impressed).
That first shared musical gave us:
- A common language (“You’re never fully dressed without a smile!”)
- A daily soundtrack
- A new way to explore feelings, storytelling, and music
Simple Ways to Connect Over Musicals
Whether you’re new to musicals or your child is a certified Broadway baby, here are a few ways to connect:
- Watch a filmed musical together – Try Hamilton (Disney+), Newsies, or Matilda the Musical.
- Create a playlist of your favorite songs – Take turns picking the next “showtune of the day.”
- Act out scenes or make costumes – Encourage creativity and laughter.
- Attend a live show – Start with a local community production or student matinee.
- Explore the backstory – Many shows touch on real-life themes. Playbill is a great resource to dive deeper.
Why Musicals Work So Well
Musicals are storytelling at their most expressive. For kids, they make big emotions feel safe to explore. For parents, they offer a fun way to learn what your child connects with—what makes them laugh, cry, or cheer.
As we explored more shows, I saw how it helped build confidence. My daughter started requesting more songs in voice lessons, wrote her own lyrics, and even asked to see a professional production.
Musicals became more than music. They became ours.
Want to Foster Musical Confidence at Home?
Private voice or piano lessons can support a child’s love of musicals and help them perform with confidence. Check out our blog on voice lessons for kids who already perform to see how lessons can deepen passion—not just technique.
FAQ: Musical Theater and Parenting
What age is best to introduce musicals to my child?
Any age! Start with age-appropriate shows. Animated classics like The Sound of Music or Mary Poppins are great gateways.
Do musicals help with emotional development?
Yes—music and storytelling together help children identify and express emotions.
Can bonding through musicals lead to music lessons?
Absolutely. Many kids start lessons because of a favorite show or character they want to emulate.
